Have you ever seen someone act the martyr? How much do is to much? When and where do you stop when you sacrifice to others. I am working on boundaries issues again...
I am learning that it is not only in my actions but it is also in what I allow people to say to me and around me. I am realizing that their are times when I would have preferred really not to hear such statements or when people are just bashing others... I HAVE THE POWER TO SAY STOP!!!!!
I have been trying to put this into practice, it is tough work! Sometimes I think i would prefer just to hear everything cause then I know everything BUT I don't want to know everything, it is way to tiring!
Where is the line? Who knows?
Today... it has been an Ok day, I stood up for myself. I approached people and confronted them on things that needed to be addressed, I did not let myself be discouraged at the need for translators today, isn't that enough? I sure hope so but the day is not over and these things do not just STOP... some days hiding in my bed sounds so much nicer then having to deal with other people.
If you are praying for me... I need wisdom and guidance cause I am lost without HIM!
BYES
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